Training (For Humans) · 8 pieces
Training (For Humans)
The system is only half of it. These are for you — what you are taking on, when to hand something over, and what to do when it gets something wrong. Read the first three before you install anything; the rest once it is running.
Feeding one of these to your chief of staff? Every piece has a plain-Markdown twin — the piece's URL with .md on the end — and the whole site is indexed at /llms.txt.
Before you have one
What you are actually taking on, and the two decisions worth making before you install anything.
What You're Actually Hiring
Chief of staff is a real human role, and borrowing the title means borrowing the shape of the job — including the part where you end up managing a manager rather than operating a tool.
When You Talk To It, And When You Don't
The most-asked question about the whole system, answered — you do not stand in the assistant's doorway asking them to tell the engineer something, and the handoff is what keeps the two apart without letting them drift.
Where Your Data Lives
Inference and custody are two separate decisions wearing one coat, and conflating them is why the hosting conversation always stalls on the wrong axis.
Once it is running
The practice. How authority widens, who is accountable when it goes wrong, and what separates people who get value from this from people who get annoyed by it.
Correct It, Don't Complain About It
The single habit that separates people who get value from a chief of staff from people who get annoyed by one — they treat a bad output as an input.
You Are The Security Boundary
A permission granted in passing does not expire when your attention does. The decision record that makes the system auditable is the same thing that makes a careless "yes" permanent.
Hire Narrow, Then Widen
Give a new curator less than it needs and let the gaps prove themselves. A refusal you did not anticipate is the strongest evidence you have that the boundary is real.
Manage The Context Yourself
Turning memory off is not asceticism. It is the difference between a session that knows what you gave it and a session that knows something you cannot inspect.
Ask It To Build You The View
Most people accept whatever interface their tools shipped with. The system can build the one you actually wanted, in an afternoon, and rebuild it when your work changes.