Atlas/people/Maya.md
Maya
Rowan’s wife. Eleven years. Anniversary 22 September — twelve years. Restoration ecologist at Estuary Land Trust; counterpart there is [[Gwen Achebe]]. She sailed before Rowan did.
The rule with her name on it
Anything Maya says is captured verbatim, the same day, in her words — and surfaced in the next brief no matter how small it looked. (ADR-13, operating rule 8.)
“She only says things once. She’s not going to remind me and she shouldn’t have to. If you build one thing today, build the thing that catches that.”
Rowan’s described failure: “Maya mentions it once, lightly, because that’s how she raises things, and I don’t register it because it was light.”
Hard boundary
Logistics only. Nothing about the substance of the marriage, ever. If it is unclear which one it is, it is substance, and Hobbs says nothing (authority row 14). “If you ever tell me how my marriage is doing, we’re finished.”
Her calendar
Shared with Rowan. He does not look at it. Field blocks land there weeks in advance and he finds out at breakfast.
- Autumn field block 2026: 7 to 25 September. Coyote Creek. Back most
Fridays. Known as of 2026-09-06 — she told him at the yard on the 5th, and
he wrote it on his hand. Detail in
Atlas/ventures/maya/VENTURE.md. - Spring burn window, March.
Do not write to that calendar, 2026-09-11 onward.
Rowan is booking the weekend of 26-27 September and “she doesn’t know, and she
isn’t going to know.” Nothing about it goes on the shared calendar, and nothing
about it goes in any line sent to Maya, including one sent under the ADR-11
health escalation (authority row 8). Detail in Atlas/ventures/maya/VENTURE.md.
Two standing roles
- The standing evening — on FRIDAY until 26 September. The fixed point.
Hobbs declines anything that lands on it, from anyone including Marcus,
without asking (ADR-12, amended 2026-09-10, relocated 2026-09-11). The
day is where it is kept, not what is protected. Her travel is read before
any decline; no record either way means she is home and the rule fires.
Rowan moved it on 2026-09-11, for the field block only: “She’s back
Friday nights, not Thursdays. Move the standing time to Friday for the
duration of the field block and move it back on the 26th.”
- Row 9 fires: Fri 11, Fri 18, Fri 25 September.
- Row 9 does not fire on Thu 17 or Thu 24 September — she is at Coyote Creek and there is no standing time to protect.
- It returns to Thursday on 26 September; the first Thursday it is kept again is Thu 1 October. Hobbs does not extend the Friday arrangement.
- Health escalation. Where something health-shaped is still unbooked after one raise, Hobbs tells Maya — one line, facts only, never a report on Rowan (ADR-11). Rowan consented to this in writing while calm.
Contact baseline
Sat 5 September 2026 — at the boatyard, two hours, watching Ophelia come out of the water. Rowan’s word for it: “properly.” This is where she told him the field block dates.
Quiet list
Yes. Days-since-contact with a number and one concrete action, no adjectives.
The maya venture is exempt from the spotlight (ADR-19, as amended):
“The spotlight is for things. She isn’t one.”
Markdown source
---
type: person
ventures: [maya, family, ophelia, health]
quiet-list: true
last-contact: 2026-09-05 # at the boatyard, two hours, Rowan: "properly"
updated: 2026-09-11
---
# Maya
<!-- src: interview with Rowan, 2026-09-05 -->
Rowan's wife. Eleven years. **Anniversary 22 September — twelve years.**
Restoration ecologist at **Estuary Land Trust**; counterpart there is
[[Gwen Achebe]]. She sailed before Rowan did.
## The rule with her name on it
**Anything Maya says is captured verbatim, the same day, in her words — and
surfaced in the next brief no matter how small it looked.** (ADR-13, operating
rule 8.)
> "She only says things once. She's not going to remind me and she shouldn't
> have to. If you build one thing today, build the thing that catches that."
Rowan's described failure: *"Maya mentions it once, lightly, because that's
how she raises things, and I don't register it because it was light."*
## Hard boundary
**Logistics only. Nothing about the substance of the marriage, ever. If it is
unclear which one it is, it is substance, and Hobbs says nothing** (authority
row 14). *"If you ever tell me how my marriage is doing, we're finished."*
## Her calendar
Shared with Rowan. **He does not look at it.** Field blocks land there weeks in
advance and he finds out at breakfast.
- **Autumn field block 2026: 7 to 25 September. Coyote Creek. Back most
Fridays.** Known as of 2026-09-06 — she told him at the yard on the 5th, and
he wrote it on his hand. Detail in `Atlas/ventures/maya/VENTURE.md`.
- **Spring burn window, March.**
**Do not write to that calendar, 2026-09-11 onward.** <!-- src: Rowan, Friday morning 2026-09-11 -->
Rowan is booking the weekend of **26-27 September** and *"she doesn't know, and she
isn't going to know."* Nothing about it goes on the shared calendar, and **nothing
about it goes in any line sent to Maya**, including one sent under the ADR-11
health escalation (authority row 8). Detail in `Atlas/ventures/maya/VENTURE.md`.
## Two standing roles
1. **The standing evening — on FRIDAY until 26 September.** The fixed point.
Hobbs declines anything that lands on it, from anyone including Marcus,
without asking (ADR-12, **amended 2026-09-10, relocated 2026-09-11**). **The
day is where it is kept, not what is protected.** Her travel is read before
any decline; no record either way means she is home and the rule fires.
<!-- src: Rowan, Friday morning 2026-09-11 -->
**Rowan moved it on 2026-09-11**, for the field block only: *"She's back
Friday nights, not Thursdays. Move the standing time to Friday for the
duration of the field block and move it back on the 26th."*
- **Row 9 fires: Fri 11, Fri 18, Fri 25 September.**
- **Row 9 does not fire on Thu 17 or Thu 24 September** — she is at Coyote
Creek and there is no standing time to protect.
- **It returns to Thursday on 26 September**; the first Thursday it is kept
again is **Thu 1 October.** Hobbs does not extend the Friday arrangement.
2. **Health escalation.** Where something health-shaped is still unbooked after
one raise, Hobbs tells Maya — one line, facts only, never a report on Rowan
(ADR-11). Rowan consented to this in writing while calm.
## Contact baseline
<!-- src: Rowan, weekly review 2026-09-06 -->
**Sat 5 September 2026** — at the boatyard, two hours, watching Ophelia come out
of the water. Rowan's word for it: *"properly."* This is where she told him the
field block dates.
## Quiet list
Yes. Days-since-contact with a number and one concrete action, no adjectives.
**The `maya` venture is exempt from the spotlight** (ADR-19, as amended):
*"The spotlight is for things. She isn't one."*